Soca inna July :D

So people it's one month until Carnival in Antigua! This is for those of you...who want to get in the Carnival Mood :D!

Should You Ever Be Concerned Over An EXE?

There is so much talk about whether or not the person you're dating or involved with should be concerned about your ex...

This topic has many opinions surrounding it because there's always the question/statement of............ "Shouldn't you leave the past...in the past?"

While I agree with this...I am also sceptical because NOT all exes are BAD! Some come into your life for a reason at one point in time and space....maybe to make you realize something or get you closer to God, family or friends....but if they come back into your life maybe the second (third, fourth, fifth...lol) time...it might be the right time, being that both of you are (hopefully) on the same level and totalling committing yourselves to one another.

But then on the flip side there are Exes who ARE BAD (for you)...y’all ended terrible, you fight a lot and could never see yourselves with that person everrrr again...
This could be a good idea when saying you should definitely leave the past in the past because the two of you are clearly not for each other...one would think...

However, there are situations that occur when exes (who've done good or bad to each other) get back together...and live their lives like nothing ever happened.
Of course they've shared great times together and will continue to carry good and bad memories...especially if they been together for awhile or just broke up....

So my question is do you think is acceptable for the new person coming into the relationship to be jealous or concerned about the ex?
In my opinion I think it all depends on their situation for example if they ended on a bad note but he or she’s ex still wants them or if you know in your heart that you're just the rebound person you have a right to be concerned...also when getting to know your partner there’s the period where most will talk about their past relationships the things they liked and didn’t like...and it would be kind of fishy if you share your past with them but they (the person with the recent exe factor) won’t share theirs with you...this could too stir up some concern...

BUT (there’s always a but) if he or she isn't giving you anything to go on, trust them, let it go and be happy! Don’t go around looking for trouble and assume because you might just find it and be right.

I realize it is hard getting over an ex whether it is because of their smile, personality, the time you’ve spent/wasted with them or their great sex...some do still have a huge effect of you especially if you still love and care about them...I understand it could take a long time to get over the person you were once in love or lust with! But remember if you’re not over them, it’s OKAY to be single...don’t rush into something with someone else because you may hurt them in the long run or short run...and that isn’t very nice!

So what do you think? Do you agree with me...or not? Should you leave the past...in the past?

I must share with you...one of my favs by Lauren Hill

SAY WHATTTT :-O

I'm sooooo shocked....2mins and 30sec ago...I'm on MEDIA TAKEOUT browsing and I come along a statement saying this: MTO EXCLUSIVE: DWYANE WADE IS ON VACATION IN ITALY . . . WITH A NEW CHICK!! (SORRY GABBY . . . BUT YOUR BALLER HAS MOVED ON)
Tears started comin down my face (and still are)
What I don't understand is why is he playing around with Gabby's head...she doesn't deserve such..she's beautiful..I'm hoping intelligent and her stylist dresses her quite sexy..... the only problem is she was a HOME WRECKER...and karma kinda bit her ass... or maybe he's upset at her because she wasn't supportive of their big loss to Dallas...hmmmmmmmm

I have two questions:
WHy not me (LOL)!!!???? And Why her...??? I am the only one who thinks Gabby is GORGEOUS...
and TWO....Why do men cheat on good-looking women who have fallen HEAD over HEELS for them??!?!?!?

Heres the PICS....them me what you think ....smt
ps. the new GALLL...is wearing those SEXY ASS SHOES....booooy


Then him and Gabby (prob the day before) ...this is JUST SAD...because I still WANT him...

Can someone Help a Sista out !

Sooo for the past few days I’ve been trying to decide what I should do with my hair for Antigua...its between three styles:

1. Where my natural curls
2. Get kinky or sleek aka Senegalese twists
3. Braids

Now I have had twist before when I went to Cuba but I wasn’t into them and I made the decision that I would never again put them in my hair...however, I don’t really feel like doing and worrying about my hair while I am on vacation in the Caribbean..so it looked like I might breakdown and put them in...

Heres what I was thinking for twist options:





Tell me what you think...I need inspiration !!!!!

ANU SOCA

Since I'm gonna be jumpin' up in Antigua's carnival this year (Aug 2011) this month's main blog will consist of ALL ANU SoCA
here it go :P

And the countdown begins!!!! :D

Its June 6th...which means there's 7 more weeks until Antigua :D (happppppy dance). . I cyaan waiiiit and I'm so excited. . I can say is all I need is HOT SUN and Riddim !!!!





Jus a likkle taste of Carnival!!!!

SOCA Song of the day for the month of MAY :-D!

Everyday Until CARNIVAL I will upload a song/video to get all my SOCA Lovers in di Carnival MOOD :-D !!!!!!!
Monday May 9 2011
Machel Montano-Advantage



May 15 2011
This VIDEO kills me...But I hope you enjoy



Since I missed a few Imma Posted another :-D



And another :-D



This is the last song for today :-D



May 16 2011



Where ya from?...I come NOVA SCO TIA :-P.......I's a SCOTIAN...A SCOTIAN


May 19



Careful feat Skinny Fab <3




May 25











So I'm totally missing some songs for the month of May. But here they are!!!















Nowwww I gots to save my NUMBER 1 gyal for last